51848_20130610_112447_imageHave you ever had a person come into your life from seemingly nowhere? Chances are that you have as most people experience this. Believe it or not, some of these people are actually part of the bigger picture. As hard as it may be to wrap your mind around, a random person coming into your life could very well be part of your life path.

In other blogs I have talked about the way that we are all united, in one way or another. Many people have a hard time understanding this because most of the people in today’s society are raised with a small fish in a big pond mentality.

For some reason, it seems as if the days of people understanding that we are all connected are beginning to fade away. This may not seem like a big deal on the surface, after all it is important to make sure that you get ahead in life, right?

While this may be true, it is important that we do not become so focused on ourselves and our lives that we are not able to accept new people into our lives. The reason for this is the fact that there are some people who are destined to be in our lives.

As we all know, each person is born with a unique set of talents, their own personality as well as their own mentality and ideas. In some situations, other people may be the ones holding the missing piece of the puzzle that we need to make our lives complete.

This actually brings a story to mind…..

I have a friend who was having issues in life. Let’s just say his life was less than productive. He was a good person and had the best intentions for his life. However, somehow he kept finding himself in trouble.

This went on for years and years. Many people tried to talk sense into my friend, including me. To be perfectly honest with you, at times it was like talking to a brick wall. In other words, our words of encouragement did nothing to help him.

Just as it was getting to the point that it seemed as if my friend was never going to see the light at the end of the tunnel, someone came into his life.

He met a woman, whose name I will also keep anonymous. This ended up being a perfect example of being at the right place at the right time! My friend and the woman he met began to really hit it off.

However, she did not agree with many of the things my friend was doing. She gradually was able to get past the same wall that we struggled with over the years and actually began to make sense to him.

This was truly astounding as no one else was ever able to get through to him and she seemed to do it effortlessly. Eventually, my friend’s entire life turned around. He now has a happy family and is beginning to make a positive image for himself.

How this can relate to you….

You never know when you wake up in the morning if you are going to meet someone who will change your life. Therefore, it is important that you accept new people into your lives, even if you do not feel as if you are in a position to do so.

We all have something much more powerful than we can understand watching out for us. Whether you believe in certain religions, chakras, universal laws or even reincarnation, it is universally understood that our higher power will guide us in the right directions if we allow it to.

Keep in mind, you may have a different experience than my friend did. The person you are destined to meet and bring into your life may not be someone who ends up being your significant other. However, in one way or another, they will help you with something you are supposed to accomplish in life.

Here is something to keep in mind…..

The person you are destined to cross paths with in life may actually need help from you. The funny thing about life is the fact that your life progress can be put on hold due to someone else not being able to complete their assigned tasks in life.

Helping another person may actually be the key that you need to unlock a better future. Even if you do not receive instant gratification for helping another person, karma will surely not turn the other cheek toward your actions.

Sooner or later it will come back around and will almost certainly contribute to a brighter future.

To wrap things up….

Never be too quick to turn someone away from your life. It is as the old saying goes “Don’t judge a book by its cover”. While it may be cliché, it is absolutely true.

It is very important that you keep in mind that not all people that appear in our lives are necessarily a good thing. While our higher powers will provide us with chances to bring important people in our lives, there are also other forces that will try to provide us with distractions.

You will need to analyze the people who appear in your lives and determine if they are a person who can contribute to your life or if they are a person who is going to drag you down.

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